When I was in 6th grade, Charity Powers went missing. The blonde hair blue eyed Charity was a classmate, but had recently transferred to a neighboring school in town. Naturally, the story of her "abduction" spread like wild fire around my Sleepy Virginia town: her mom dropped her off at Chester Skateland but forgot to pick her up and the last anyone saw of her was at a nearby Hardee's Restaurant. As one story had it, when Charity asked a sassy Hardee's employee for the time, the woman answered, "Time for you to be in bed."
Normally, when something like that happens at a school, grief counselors are brought in to help students deal with it. When another classmate died that year of Leukemia, an official announcement was made and our teachers asked us if we wanted to talk about it. And years later, when a popular senior at my high school died in a car crash, almost everyone was allowed to stay home and mourn.
But when Charity Powers disappeared, none of that happened. It wasn't talked about in an official way. Even the rumors were discussed very casually, as if we were gossiping about a cheerleading scandal or new gym class policy. We weren't given a "Don't Talk to Strangers" lessons or asked what we would do if our parents never showed up to pick us up. And I don't remember being scared. As it was, my town was largely middle class family town, and Charity was from "the wrong side of the tracks". Her mom had a different last name as Charity. Sadly, most of the adults in my town thought her abduction didn't apply to their children. Whenever it was discussed, there was always a tone of "That could never happen to you, dear, your mom wouldn't forget to pick you up."
While that may be true--my mom always did come through for me--I wasn't struck by how sad and regrettable the whole affair was until later, in my college years, when I realized the implications of that attitude. I was reminded of it again, this past fall, when Hurricaine Katrina devastated Mississippi and Lousiana and the people who were left stranded those who didn’t have the resources to leave, were initially forgotten and dismissed.
Within a few weeks of her disappearance, the chatter about Charity subsided. Months passed and Charity was never found. What seemed like a year later, her body was found in the back yard of a man who lived near the Skateland.
Recently, curious to know the truth, I researched her death on the internet and discovered the facts: Charity’s mom had arranged for a family friend to pick her up, but the friend fell asleep. Later that evening, Charity’s mom came home and discovered that she was missing. Charity was indeed last seen at a Hardee’s restaurant, and so was Everett Lee Mueller, according to 4 teenage eye-witnesses who had also been at the skating rink. When the police searched Mueller’s backyard, four months later, they found Charity buried in a shallow grave. Mueller later confessed on video tape to taking her home, having sex with her and strangling her. He testified that he was drunk at the time and thought that the 10 year old Charity was 19 years old. The next morning he thought the whole episode was a dream until he came across her body. He proceeded to burn her clothes and jewelry and bury with a shovel. Autopsy reports say that Charity’s throat was also cut and also indicated that she was also stabbed repeatedly. Mueller was tried by jury and sentenced to death for 2 counts of capital murder, but petitioned clemency by saying that he found the girl's body while walking through the woods behind his home. His petition was denied and Everett Lee Mueller was executed on September 19, 1999 by lethal injection, the 573rd American to be executed.
In my research, I came across a picture of Charity. It was interesting to compare the picture in my mind to the real picture. She looks like a normal, happy 10 year old.
When I was in sixth grade, I was told her mother was to blame—that Charity’s fate would have been different had her mother been a good mom. But what if I were at the Skateland and my mother was in a car crash and failed to show up? That creep still would have been on the prowl and the outcome probably would have been the same. And what about all of the others involved? What about the owners of the skating rink? Why hadn’t they noticed that a 10 year old girl was stranded? What about the teenagers who knew Charity? Why didn’t they offer to help her? What about the Hardee’s employees? Weren’t they worried about this little girl, who was there unattended late at night? Maybe it was unwise for the mother to leave her daughter in the care of someone irresponsible enough to fall asleep and forget her. Maybe her mother should not have left a 10 year old girl unsupervised at a skating rink, despite the fact that she was familiar with the staff.
Ultimately, the community didn’t protect her. We didn’t protect her life when she was stranded, we didn’t protect her honor when she was abducted and we didn’t protect her memory when she died.
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
A Sad Story about Charity Powers
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Amen.
Oooh Carrie that gave me chills. I remember it the same way. She was in Children's Theatre - that's how I knew her.
I remember hiding under the kitchen table hearing my mom talk about how Charity's mom was crazy and something had always been "off" about her.
Weirdly, right after they found her body, I started keeping a kitchen knife under my bed just in case.
Carrie, your blogs about CH are piercing. Although I was only there for First through Third Grades, and then came back for Eighth and Ninth Grades, I remember clearly the story about Charity Powers. Haunting, especially your description of the utter detachment of the people on "our" side of the tracks. Reminds me of my trip to Rwanda in 2004 and the question I could not answer: Where is compassion in this world? It is a problem everywhere that people do not care for each other properly, that communities fail. Thanks for this posting.
xoxo,
e.lang
Thanks, all! This story something that I've returned to a lot since college. Writing it was definitely a cathartic experience--especially since it gave me a reason to really research the facts. I'm extra glad that you (and others) have appreciated it.
Lovely post . . .
I can relate on so many levels. My 7th grade classmate, Opal Mills, fell prey to the Green River Killer. I regret not knowing enough about myself to extend to her small kindnesses along the way. I wish that my classmates and I hadn't been so sensationalistic about it afterwards, that we had recognized it for the true tragedy it was.
It pains me, as an adult, to read about her life and to know how wrong we were.
Your blog is lovely.
I remember all that. Laura Carter was the girl in 6th grade, she was Ben Carter's cousin. Ingram died in that car accident - I really felt for Stevie and Richie, even though we'd never been friends or even talked much.
A little younger, a guy named Keith died by a drunk driver - that, too, came and went all too fast, but perhaps worse than that, his most remembered moment had been that he was suckerpunched in a fight and knocked out. It's a real shame he wasn't able to outlive that moment to be better remembered with something else.
About the same age, Beth Sweeney died in another auto mishap, this time with the driver reportedly having fallen asleep at the wheel. It may have been some embellishment of the rumor, but she was said to have fallen asleep, too, and slept through it all. I was surprised how fast she disappeared from peoples' minds - she had been a fairly "popular" sort.
Right now, worst for me and my recollection, I cannot remember the girl that was hit by a police car some years before all that. I want to say she even predated Laura's death - she had been riding her bike, I think just before a school year started, when an officer didn't see her and ... that was it. As if it was not bad enough to die, and then be poorly managed in the memories of others subsequently, she also had the terrible misfortune to have died on a summer break, well out of the minds of her peers. I used to remember her name without fail, but my memory has been whittled away by various things.
And that's not even all the people that quietly, pleasantly disappeared from the Heights' view. Maybe it's as simple as we predated grief counselors visiting after such tragedies, but I'm inclined to think that people simply did not care enough.
Life and schooling in Colonial Heights failed to prepare us for a great many things in life, and it would prove to fail us even in death. I'll be managing my memory myself, and well outside that city's reach.
(I noticed you in the CHHS people on MySpace and was wondering how you'd been doing, since I'm frankly just relieved to see that people I knew are still alive, and thought I'd check your blog. You're just about as I'd expected. :)
This article brings back many, many memories. I was also a ten-year-old blonde girl when Charity went missing. We were the same age and generally fit the same description, but I was from the "right" side of the tracks. No one I knew was close to Charity or her family -- in fact no one I knew even knew them. However, I clearly remember the adults around me blowing Charity off because she wasn't middle class and from a family where both parents were married. There was no public outrage over Charity's death like there was over Polly Klaas' murder in California or Sofia Silva and Kristin and Kati Lisk slayings in Spotsylvania, Virginia. Why? Because these were "good" girls from "good" families. For goodness sakes, Charity's mother loved her! 17 years later, my heart still goes out to Charity's family. Where the hell is the compassion for them? Why weren't laws changed in Charity's name?
Today is November 2, 2007. I just came across the story about Charity. I was a cousin of hers. We played together when we were younger. I remember many things about her. One, when she would come to visit, she would always bring a large bag of candy to share with my sisters and me. Her dad loved her very much and spoiled her to the extent any loving father would! Her fathers love has a bittersweet ending. A little less than a year ago, her father passed away in a car accident. He and his girlfriend both died in the crash. So now Mike, her father is with her in Heaven. I know as soon as he found out that Everett L Mueller was a suspect, he went looking for him...luckily he didnt find him but the cops did. So sad.
Wow, that is so sad, Angie. Thanks for sharing.
Wow, great post. I lived in Chester for the first 9 years of my life before moving to Northern Virginia. I don't remember Charity's case as clearly as you do because I'm a little younger than you. I was a 3rd grader at Curtis Elem. I didn't realize she was from the "wrong side of the tracks" and that everyone blamed her mother. When she disappeared, I remember some people knocking on my door and showing my parents a picture of her and asking if they had seen her. But now that I think about it, none of the teachers or other adults at school mentioned Charity at all. The only adults I remember discussing Charity's case were my parents. My dear father warned me to be careful every time he saw a missing child in the news and every time one of those "Have you seen me?" postcards came in the mail. Being the great man that he was (rest in peace Daddy), he didn't treat Charity Powers any differently and warned me after she was kidnapped. Charity was somebody's little girl.
After reading this I am really pissed off at the employees working at the skating rink and at Hardee's. There were all those adults there and not ONE of them bothered to help her. And THEN they actually had the NERVE to turn around and blame the poor mother after she was kidnapped.
Thanks for the post. Do you still live in the area?
Thanks! I haven't lived in that area since high school.
I am now glad I grew up there and have an enormous fondness for Virginia, but back then I wanted nothing more than to get out, so I did. I found people to be so judgmental there, just like in this story. I don't mean to make generalizations. There are some wonderful folks there, too, of course, but people in my hometown could be so cruel to people perceived as outsiders.
Anyway, I never thought of Charity as being from the "wrong side of tracks" either, but I remember at least one snooty adult referred to her as such.
I love hearing from people like you, because I often wonder if my classmates remember it the same way I do. It makes me glad to see others are carrying her memory on with them.
I've since edited and updated this story. I should probably post the new version sometime, but I'm too nostalgic to take the original version down.
Thanks again for your comments!
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I was also a sixth grader in Chester the fall that Charity Powers dissapeared, and the tragedy was the first time I remember having any real concept of the evils and injustices in the world. The idea that something so horrific could happen in the same small town where I'd always felt so safe and protected really impacted me. You also capture, perfectly, the response of the town. I remember trying to discuss Charity with adults, in hopes of finding some sense of resolution, only to realize that they'd rather sweep it under the rug then try to talk sensitively to a child about what had happened. My friends and peers seemed to also feel detached and unaffected....as if it were something they saw in a movie, discussed in passing in a gossipy, throw a way kind of way, instead of the unthinkable occurring in our own back yard. I knew several of her cousins and like most children in Chester, the Skateland was a familiar hang out to me. The thought of someone so young just dissapearing, and that none of the adults who saw her stranded in the middle of the night reached out to help, was horrifying. Charity's smiling face in the school picture that was so often in the newspaper during that time haunted me, and for months I remember saying a secret prayer for her safe return at bedtime. After some time, the eerie feeling subsided and reports about the case dwindled from the television and newspaper, then Everett Mueller was arrested and the facts of what had happened were released to the local media, which opened up those basic questions all over again: How could something like this have happened to an innocent person? Why don't people want to talk about it? It could have been me...it could have been anybody's child. I looked for answers and found none, but shortly after that I had a dream that I was sitting on my front porch on an unusually sunny day, and a little girl in a yellow sundress suddenly appeared from the clearing in the woods and came up to me carrying a flower. As she got closer, I recognized her as Charity from the pictures....she appeared very peaceful and had a sunny air about her. With out a word, she quickly leaned in and handed me the flower, then smiled and nodded serenly before retreating back to where she came from. The dream was a great comfort to me. Having moved from Chester sometime ago, I haven't thought about Charity in years, but it came to mind recently so I googled her name to see what I could find. Your blog was teh first thing that came up, and it gave me chills but so perfectly captured the time, place, and feeling of those events. Thank you for posting.
The 18th anniversary of Charity's death has recently come and gone -- Oct. 6. I hope the Richmond newspaper does something in two years for the 20th anniversary. She deserves to be remembered for who she was -- a young girl who loved shopping and talking on the phone to her best friend. I can't believe she has been gone so long.
Wow, eighteen years. I forget that now she's been passed longer than she was alive. So sad. =(
Carrie,
I too remember that story vividly, and think of it every time I think about skating rinks. Becuase she wasn't from our school, I only knew of her thru some folks I skated with, "regulars", and I too remember that it was treated as no big deal. It was like the adults had the attitude that she was already gone so why bother. A friend's mom warned us about the area when we'd go skate, but I don't think my own parents ever mentioned a thing.
And you are SO right about our town and it's good-ol' boy atmosphere. Everything you said is true and I couldn't have said it better myself. As an adult I can see that it was a better place to grow up than most, but it sure was a social nightmare at times. Glad I wasn't the only one who counted down the time til I could leave it.
I was reading the book " bones "
a forensic detectives casebook , on the bus today , riding home from work , and this case was mentioned and it saddened me to hear this story. In my wildest imagination I cannot understand how such a chain of circumstance has lead to this tragedy. Who in their right mind, upon seeing this child not in the company of an adult , would not even take a moment to ask if her where her guardian was?
and what were the odds that a monster would be lurking at the very same time......
makes you wonder how A loving god could allow such an event to take place..
My heart goes out to you charity .
I can only imagine what betrayal you felt while this took shape and occurred..not to mention absolute terror.
and to think a convicted rapist was free to commit this horrible act, makes me want to scream..
while on the other hand harmless but money making, and not much effort required by law enforcement and prosecutors, violations such as pot smoking, are prosecuted to the full extent of the law , and in many ways is much more punitive than what this monster had to deal with ....
god bless you charity and your poor mother ,,im sure in alot of ways this has killed her too.
May the deaf dumb and blind
politicians be dammned as guilty as the monster who did this as, they provided the way for it to happen and who serve no one but themselves
:(
Charity has been gone 19 years as of today. 19 years. I wonder where she would be in life today as a 29-year-old woman.
It is so sad to hear this story. My heart goes out to the family..
I am a parent of 3 kids, and I could not imagine ever not picking up my child. If for some chance I had to arrange to have them picked up, I woud still call to make sure they got home.
I learned of this story in 2002 when I wanted to search for my biological father, who turned out to be Everett Lee Mueller.. I was saddeded to know that this kind of thing really happens so close to home.
I can tell yu he was sick, he had mental issues, thats not an excuse for his actions, but I really feel like the justice system failed this innocent child. He should have never been released from prison the first time.
I did not know my father, but I will apologize for his actions, I know that will not bring back little Charity.. But someone needs to take responsiblity.
As a parent I try to put myself into this poor mothers shoes, the guilt would just kill me, but just knowing that her baby is not there is too much pain to endure.
I will leave this as the last blogger said "May the deaf dumb and blind
politicians be dammned as guilty as the monster who did this as, they provided the way for it to happen and who serve no one but themselves
Yo, idk whos website this is but for real fuck off. you no nothing bout that crap that happened. that just so happened to be my half sister. you dont no crap bout that all you no is the dumb bull crap stories that every one says on this internet. So stop runnin your mouth because that is not the stuff that happened some of it is true but most of it aint. i started to read it and it pissed me off how much of that was fake. so i decided to call you on it so do me and my family a favor and don't talk about stuff when you dont have all the facts enspecially when it is about our family. Thank you have a great fuckin day.
Tayrn is a lier for one she never had a ride for charity. She was at the bar getting wasted when she was supposed to be picking her up. And Charity was not 10 she was 13. And tayrn dint care. she waited two days before she called the police.but one thing that you are right about is tayrn is a HORRIBLE mother. she made nathan potts her youngset son go to school with cockroaches in his book bag when he was bout 9 or 10. her house was always dirty and she let her kids beat her and just didnt care bout anything and at this moment she is supporting a child molester. But on top of all that she goes over to mexican ships and prostitutes herself for money.That is what you should no bout taryn potts
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